Binary beings we humans are. Forged and fused with perfectly opposing forces. Which makes loving another human Wholly, quite the business.
To love the dual nature of another human we must be dual in our abilities. That is, we need two sets of eyes ~ one set for seeing what is exposed and another to be the Visionary, two sets of ears ~ one to hear what's spoken and another for the rumbles from the underground, and two kinds of acceptance ~ the acceptance born of flesh and blood, and the numinous sustenance of the soul.